Randy Westover

Santa became how I viewed God. When I thought about it, they are both old guys with big, long beards who wanted people to be good. They both see and know all the bad stuff I did. So, I believed I needed to do good things and be better for goodness sake. As life went on, I continued to hear that voice in my head, “Have you been a good boy?”

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